Frank everyone has put in their two penneth, so i think i will give mine hope you dont mind, Iwas with a girl for seven years after our first boy was born she started to treat me like a dog, she would say terrible things, debt collectors were always calling, she stabbed me and many times attacked me with various instruments of warfare, she would then stand there screaming for me to hit her, believe me i wanted to, but thankfully never did. Her favourite put down was that i was a poor provider, i was a courier at the time driving six and a half days a week, then i started doing the night trunk