If it is jewellery you are after.. try a Pandora... bracelet.. or necklace.. you can choose charms.. to suit her and your pocket http://www.johngreedjewellery.co.uk/index.php?
Right i have this friend... she is in a relationship with a partner who is out of work.. and so is she.. But she pays all the bills.. and all the food.. and when she asked him.. to help a bit.. he said he couldnt afford too... he does run a car...and smoke..what are your thoughts....
I wish you all the best.. but please try to keep the dogs.. they keep you in a routine of walks and feeling needed .. and help, stop you feeling low.. You can tell them anything. and trust that it stays that way..
Hope it all works out for you...