I very much see what you are saying, and I do agree with the sentiment.
But there is this thing called 'the other 23 hours'. . . . . used when talking about . . . . . well the kind of kids I work with.
An example . . . .
I may work with a young man, maybe 15 years old. He lives on the estate, always has done, so do his brothers, cousins, dad. He sells drugs for a bit of cash, so do his brothers, cousins and his old man. . . . . they always have. They do well out of it, in his and their eyes, its fun, it works and its normal.
He gets sent to me one day, and sits in a wee room