i for one think your just right, no idea what age you are but coming from my view as a girl in her 20's I look around at girls I went to school with and most of them have at least one child, on one hand I wonder if I'm the odd one not wanting children at young age then on the other hand I'd rather be completely grounded, wiser and financially stable and everything in between to have a child, then I know I've done it when ready. We've had the discussion of himself being 10yrs older that it may have to happen sooner rather than later. But no I'd rather take the chance and be 100% ready, he's alr