good point chippy how do you find the silent ones
feel for vibrations
try find the tube with a t bar
and listen for grunts and heavy breeding through the little hole!
not always that easy though!
replied to this bloke, rang him four times! no reply! bullshitter i'm afraid.
dont be so rude the fella is inviting someone out for a bit off craic and you have to give out!
try ringing him not his girlfriend!