Some very thought provoking stuff Gnasher, it has made me re-think my general opinion as what you said made a lot of sense.
If I think about it seriously, my whole experience of body builders has , but for a very few, been a fairly negative one but as you say this was outside of a gym, they were mostly the tit element of door staff that you and strong stuff describe and we got along badly within 4 nano seconds of clapping eyes on each other.......this would be to every place I went to no matter where, must be my ugly mug I suppose.
All of this of course gives me a very one sided view of thin