unfortunately you have learned the hard way with so called freinds.and that prick who lives next door well i had 1 the same a few year ago but now there ok ish neighbours.boot your man to the kerb .. hes a cock roach feeding of your miss fortune. i hope you get your house move feller and your neeighbour . well just hope scum bags move in when you leave teach the nosey fk@ to keep two his own .