ive been through this myself, had a nice house spent just short of 2 grand on me dog pens, i would be lamping at least 5 nights a week, and when i wasnt lamping id be on these site's paying her no intrest what so ever, needless to say it lasted 6 month and she started seeing some one else behind me back. I was warned what would happen off a few older blokes i hunt with and i just laughed it off, i took all me pens down rented me house out and back with parents now, i often think was it worth it, it took me a while to get back in to full swing with the dogs, i just hope next time round ive lear