I've never been religious in the slightest. Was raised church of England but stopped as soon as I had the choice.
I believe we're born, live your life then die. Rot in the ground, gone. No spirit/soul ghost etc.
my wife though was/is a christian although she rarely visited a chapel.
After the death of our son she 'dropped' religion but I wouldn't class her as an atheist though as she still visits the grave every year to wish him happy birthday and as a carer of the elderly, when they die she'll open a window for the soul to escape....
So she still believes in spirits/souls which is obvious