Correct Maty,thats the golden word....Permission!I guess guys like Neil dont really have much of a life,he never quite fulfilled his expectations,never achieved Alpha male status amongst his friends,kind of sad really,sounds a bit like myself As for merry men,well,merry is just another way of saying gay,care to join us neil :kiss: Dont be shy,your amongst friends,come and give me a man-hug :kiss: