Giving him a clip at this stage of the game is going to solve nowt except make you feel better,I used to get regular beatings,and I mean BEATINGS,as a kid which stopped when I left home at 16 and never went back Always better of talking to your kids,sit him down,tell him just how deep the shit he has walked into is,but tell him you will get out of this together He is your boy at the end of the day,we all make mistakes,its a learning curve,we are supposed to be older and wiser than our boys,we are actually here to guide them,my youngest son once said I was his best friend,thats what its all