i expect mrs fish to do all that was expected of a woman in my grandmothers day. i do however do 90% of the cooking as ime an ex chef and can cook very well,but i expect her to clean,do the washing ,iron what is needed,wash up,feed the animals,bath the 4 kids,do the nappies,sort out finances,we shop together as she is still not able to be trusted to check all the prices and work out what is the better deal ,and i expect her to help with work at our 2 allotments.the one shauvenist thing i do absalutely insist on is a coffie waiting for me next to the pc when i get up and the fire lit.