In both my cases, my granny an my ma we knew they where both terminal an knew it was coming, so I was in a position to be able to put me life on hold both times for a bit, so said fcuk it I’ll do it, glad I did even tho it near broke me watching it happen bedside, other family members weren’t in sane position sn I don’t hold it against anybody, it’s what we done for them in life that important imho, cos death comes so swift an out the blue more times than not but like I say we knew time was coming an I decided to hang about an say bye, even tho I prob done more for both them whilst they alive