First off i've been with my missis 14yrs and we have a 6yr old a 11yr old and a 15 yr old(just turned 15 xmas day). Now those of you who can do the maths will have worked out that my boy is not biologically mine although i have raised him as best i can for 14 yrs. Anyway his bio father has never really bothered with him which has been great for me and my missus cause he's a no good scumbag who used to hit her about, never worked in his life (hes now 36 same age as me). We had a phonecall just before xmas to say he wanted to see his son, so me and my missus asked him why he had not seen or phon