anho what your saying about that lad not leathering the guy doing in his mum mate I have seen it myself used to work in my mates mum and stepdads pub, step dad came inside door one night storming up stairs for one of there regular arguments and my mate came running down in tears could hardly speak a thought he had been hit heard more screaming so ran up he had punched my mates mum an had her choking out in front of his two bairns got him out and down stairs and my mate just stood there frozen when me an him had do outside.... the man had been f***ing with his head mentally for years never lift